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The American flag is the symbol of our freedom. It is the one thing that has survived our history, even if our morals, or standards, or laws did not. It is what our loved ones fight to protect and defend, and because of that, the flag deserves our respect. On this page you will find the proper ways for a civilian to show respect to our American Flag.

There are two times during the day in which you will honor the flag. The first is Reveille, which is held each morning when the flag is raised, but it is not likely you will observe this ceremony very often. The second is at Retreat, which is usually around 4:30pm when the flag is lowered.

If you are outdoors at either of these times, you are expected to stop your activities, face in the direction of the flag, and stand at attention until the music ends. You do not need to see the flag to honor it. If you hear the music, you are within proper distance to respect it.

If you are driving on post at one of these times, stop your car, even if you are in traffic. It is proper to exit your car, and stand beside it, as well as your passengers, but for safety and for children's safety, you are not required to exit. As far as stopping in the road while on post, it is regulation that you stop the vehicle. There are posts out there that if you fail to stop to honor the colors, and an MP sees you, you can be ticketed. You may not hear the music from your car, but if you see the flag, or if you see others standing, then you can bet it is time to honor the colors.

It is important to teach your children the proper traditions as well. If you are at home, (on or off post) and you hear the Retreat, have your children stop playing, and show respect. Teach them to be silent during the ceremony. (Easier said than done, I know, but it is a wonderful tradition to grow up with.) I believe that the traditions of the Army are fading fast, and this frightens me. Support your country, and show your spouse that you are indeed proud of what they do, and hold dear to your heart all of the wonderful things they fight to keep sacred to the United States. Please, do show your respect to the American flag. So many have lost their lives defending it.

Coming soon: How to display the American Flag